Holding on to the wrong things

I am holding on to the wrong things.

I am holding on to the bold yellow silk scarf that one day I might be brave enough to wear. But not the food in the freezer for a hurting family.

I am holding on to the bitterness from a person who deeply hurt me. But not the space for a last minute invite to friends.

I am holding on to magazines from 2012 in case I need to remember how to get that particular stain out of the carpet. But not the willingness to introduce myself to the new neighbors.

I am holding on to things that are keeping me from connecting with others. I am crowding my mind and space with stuff by holding on to the wrong things.

I want to start letting go of the wrong things and start making space for the right ones..What might you need to let go of and grab on to?